📺视频-Sex被视为实现神圣目的的手段
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一位和尚分享了关于性的重要见解，强调其在人的体验、精神探索中的作用，以及优先考虑精神目标而非物质欲望的重要性。
亮点
- 🧘♂️ 精神视角：性可以通过精神的视角来看待，关注更深层的联系，而不仅仅是肉体的欲望。
- 🔄 人类与动物本能：与动物不同，人类能够进行超越基本需求（如饮食、睡眠、交配和恐惧）的精神探索。
- 🎯 优先考虑法则（Dharma）：精神目标应指导生活中的行为，包括性行为，而不是让欲望主宰人生旅程。
- 📜 印记（Samskaras）：精神中的仪式帮助转化印象，专注于生命的神圣目的。
- 💡 对灵魂的好奇心：理解灵魂的旅程使人优先关注高于肉体欲望的事物，从而实现精神上的满足。
- 🚀 欲望的升华：精神修行者将性欲引导向更高的精神目标，丰富他们的精神体验。
- 🌌 更高的快乐：来自精神联系的快乐超越肉体的愉悦，提供深刻的满足感。
关键见解
- 🧘♂️ 性作为精神工具：性不仅仅是生理行为；它可以被视为实现神圣目的的手段，强调行为背后的意图的重要性。
- 🦁 人类存在的本质：人类通过提出存在性问题而与众不同，使他们能够追求超越生存本能的更深层意义。
- ⚖️ 平衡物质与精神：承认并控制性欲能引导更深层的精神道路，避免妨碍精神成长的干扰。
- 🔍 好奇心是关键：参与对灵魂旅程的探索问题能够激发对个人精神路径更丰富的理解，促进成长。
- 🔄 仪式塑造意识：精神仪式和印记是转变心态的方法，帮助将注意力转向更高的目的和社区支持。
- 🕊️ 重定向能量：通过将性能量转向精神实践，个体能够提升意识，并与神圣建立更深的联系。
- 🌟 终极满足：与神圣的联系带来的快乐大于肉体的愉悦，强调生活中需要更高的精神关注。
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在《仁秀》上，通过好奇心获得快乐。我有点不好意思问你下一个问题，因为这是我社会上的条件反射。但我不是从社会的角度问你，而是从非常人性的生活角度问你。好的，我觉得因为你是个放弃世俗的人，而且你对经典的研究也很深入，所以你是能给出关于性方面的正确经典意见的人之一，这个话题涉及到很多人的生活旅程。
有很多种方式，比如我不是单纯在说性行为，我说的是对性的渴望，这种渴望变得有点表面、物质化。我需要积累财富来变得更有吸引力，我需要做这个手术来让自己看起来更年轻，所有这一切都跟性有关。所以我想听听一个僧侣对性行为和随意性交的看法，因为这是我们这个时代的真实情况，以及对性欲的整体看法。
因为这确实是放弃的一大部分，所以你离它越远，越能从远处看清，也许理解得越透彻。我觉得这是个非常重要的问题。让我先说一下，克里希那在《博伽梵歌》中提到，我就是性生活，这符合达摩的原则，这意味着性生活本身也是一个非常符合达摩的过程，帮助我们实现创造后代的愿望。所以在说完这些前提之后，接下来我想引用。
《摩诃婆罗多》提到的吃、睡、交配，也就是性生活，还有防御或恐惧，这四样是人类和动物共同的。如果你观察这些动物，会发现有些动物在吃草，它们吃草没有时间限制，从早到晚都在找食物，因为它们就是这样被创造和设计的。至于睡觉和交配，这些有固定的时间可以进行。但有一点是我们所有人共同的，那就是恐惧。
所以吃饭、睡觉和交配都有开始和结束的时间，但恐惧没有开始和结束的时间。所以在这四个方面，最难克服的就是恐惧。现在，如果你其他三个方面做得不好，比如吃得不对，就容易得病；如果睡得不好，你会觉得自己是超人或超女，觉得晚上不需要睡觉，白天才是睡觉的时间。你这么做一段时间后，现在你看看。
在日本，30多岁和40多岁的人因为缺乏睡眠导致心脏病的情况越来越普遍。很多公司不得不激励员工，比如那些能睡5个半到6个小时的人会获得现金奖励和晋升机会，鼓励他们去睡觉。当你睡不好觉时，自然会担心疾病和心脏病的风险。同样，如果我们的性生活没有按照经典中的指导去做，也会增加我们的恐惧感。因此，这句经文的下一句。
他说[音乐]，如果一个人只关注这四样东西，那他就有点像动物。但人类和其他动物的区别在于，我们可以追求精神上的好奇心。否则，所有物种都只是在做两件事：问问题和找答案，问问题和找答案，对吧？所以每个物种都只是在问问题，努力找到这些问题的答案。那些问题是什么呢？每个物种都在问：食物在哪里？睡觉在哪里？性在哪里？
生活中，我们常常会问：安全和避难所在哪里？这些都是典型的问题，归根结底就是这些。在我们人类的生活中，我们给这些问题添加了很多复杂的层面，但基本上，它们就是这些。你可能会想，我的财产在哪儿，2居室、3居室，租房、拥有、抵押贷款等等，但归根结底，还是在问如何保护自己，在哪里能安安心心地休息。所以，衣服啊、其他一切，都是围绕这四个基本需求展开的。
动物们就是去做，而人类则是讨论、计划，然后再去做，结果他们没有意识到自己应该做一些超越这四个的事情，这被称为达摩。因此，V经的开始就是理解“因此”，人类生活的核心任务就是探询我的灵性旅程，以及如何帮助灵魂超越肉体的束缚，这就是所谓的解脱。而问题是，当人们不问这个问题时，究竟是什么问题呢？
五个跟灵魂相关的问题：第一，我的灵魂现在在哪里？第二，我的灵魂死后会去哪里？第三，我的灵魂在那个地方会有什么体验？第四，我希望灵魂走什么样的路才能到达那个地方？第五，我的灵魂在旅途中会遇到什么障碍？这五个问题被认为是关于灵魂旅程的好奇心，就像你期待的一样。
去瑞士旅游，所以你在考虑，好吧，我在孟买，我的目的地是瑞士。那我应该去阿尔卑斯山滑雪，还是去日内瓦参加世界经济论坛？这些都是不同的体验。那我应该搭瑞士航空，还是搭兰扎航班，还是搭别的航班？这都是旅程的一部分。好吧，我没有签证，或者这对旅程是个障碍。所以这些都是身体旅程的一部分。同样，灵魂也应该进行这样的认真规划。
死后的旅程就像我们计划假期和度假目的地一样，所以当我们不断思考灵魂之旅时，那就成了你主要的关注点，其他的一切都只是为了支持这个目标。你日夜沉浸在一个想法里：如何创造高质量的内容，为这个世界的和平、和谐和幸福做贡献，这就是你的冥想。因此，对你来说，食物就成了一种支持性的东西。你知道，你需要保持喉咙温暖。
需要一些热水，你得有个住的地方，但你的冥想就是最重要的，其他一切都是辅助的。所以，当一个人把法（达摩）、永恒的法、灵性和灵魂的体验放在首位时，饮食就得支持这个目标，梦境也得支持，生活中的其他方面也得支持这个目标。如果不这样的话，就会妨碍这个特定的目标。饮食就是吃东西，饮食、睡眠，饮食就是食物，睡眠就是休息，B是恐惧。
不安、危险、各种攻击，还有性生活，这四者都服务于原始的理念，即我们如何在精神上达到那个目标。因此，圣经中提到，一旦你重新确定优先级，人们就会问我应该吃素还是吃荤？我应该睡4个小时还是8个小时？我应该交女朋友和有性生活，还是应该结婚？你对禁欲、守贞、梵行等怎么看？我说这些都是。
次要的事情就像是在问，我应该选择兰扎、印度航空、K太平洋还是瑞士航空？你首先得决定目的地。一旦目的地确定了，其他旅行细节就会自然而然地跟上。所以你需要先从目的地开始。当你和我谈论这些时，你是默认一个人非常认真对待精神旅程和精神目的地。所以这样的人的回应。
关于饮食，我会从灵性目标的角度来谈。像我这样专注于灵性目标的人，回答你关于睡眠的问题时会有所不同。睡眠要适度，不能太极端，不能太多也不能太少。睡觉的时间要安排得当，这样才能在醒来时有助于实现那个灵性目标。我的担忧是，我害怕那些会分散我注意力的事物，害怕那些会阻碍我的事物。
通往记忆克里希纳的旅程，同样我的性生活也应该以一种不阻碍我向那个精神目标前进的方式进行。因此，拳击手的饮食和体操运动员的饮食是不同的，因为他们的目标不同，所以一切都要随之而变。对于那些有精神目标的人来说，从这个角度看，性生活变成了一种为主服务的附属责任，这就是克里希纳的意义所在。
在所有信仰传统中，这段话说的是，性生活一直被视为一种过程，通过它我们可以服务至高无上的主，成为社会的代理和工具，把灵魂带到这个世界，进入一种神圣的意识，从而让灵魂能够实现精神上的目标。因此，在我们传统中有16个轮回，其中一个就是神圣轮回，在这个过程中神圣的灵魂被唤醒，神性被召唤。
在丈夫给妻子受孕之前，会进行各种仪式。当性生活真正发生时，会召唤吉祥的灵魂来进入子宫，这被称为“盖丹仪式”。一旦这个仪式完成后，当灵魂在子宫里，大约在第七或第八个月，他们会进行一种叫“阿萨尔”的仪式，这意味着会召唤所有积极的能量来祝福在子宫里的灵魂。
祝福降临在那个灵魂身上，当灵魂真正显现出来，诞生发生后，就会有因果轮回，紧接着会有各种各样的修行，教育也由此开始。整个理念就是要转变印象，这个转变印象的基本思想就是通过轮回的方法来替换心灵上的印象。就像是在删除旧文件，用新文件替换那些旧文件，旧记忆被新记忆取代。
记忆、新印象、新叙事、新优先事项，这些是如何通过念诵咒语和参与各种仪式的过程来实现的。我们想要改变的主要印象是：“我是掌控者，我是拥有者，我是享受者。”这是被限制的灵魂通常携带的叙事，称为“我执”和“假我”。我们要用真实的自我来替代它，真实的自我就是至高的主，他是掌控者，是拥有者，是享受者，而我只是个仆人。
这些习俗的目的是让人们感受到，很多人认为这都是一些仪式而已。但在维克·圣阿坦教（Sanatan Dharma）中，这一切都是相互关联的，形成了一种美丽而无缝的方法，整个社会就像一个接力赛一样，帮助灵魂的意识从这里提升到那里，而社会中的每一个成员都扮演着自己的角色。实际上，在我出生之前，我母亲几个月前在一次采访中提到，曾经有一群女性在一起念颂商羯罗（Shankaracharya）的经文。
在我出生前一天，所有的咒语都有着强大的影响。其实有个有趣的故事，一位女士怀孕期间经常看一部特定的电视剧。当她生下孩子后，这个孩子总是哭，只有在那部剧开播的时候才会安静下来。因此，当你从那些想要修行或追求精神成长的人角度谈论性的时候，这就是他们的感受。
他们专注于自己的优先事项，把这当作修行来完成，而对其他事情的优先级就降低了。他们会把这些活动与自己的优先事项对齐。比如，有人在科塔为 IIT 考试学习，可能几个月都不看电影。这并不是说电影不带来快乐，电影确实能带来快乐，但他们选择放弃这种快乐，以追求更高的快乐，那就是当结果公布时，听到自己在 IIT 前100名的那种满足感。
把看电影的乐趣放在第一位，所以如果有人问你，“嘿，你的意思是性没有乐趣吗？”其实不是，性行为本身是有乐趣的。但当一个人把精神生活放在首位时，那种当灵魂通过永恒的关系与至高灵魂连接时所释放的乐趣，质量和程度都是远远超过性行为的乐趣。这就是为什么在几千年里，人们受到启发去控制性生活，把精神生活放在更重要的位置。
精神上的快乐，所以我们绝对不能认为这能被人为地实现。一个人不可能坐在科塔，不学习IIT，然后就说我不看电影，我不看电影。其实，他不看电影是因为他把重心放在学习课程和准备考试上，想要顺利通过IIT。作为人类，你总会有做某件事情的冲动，所以把这种冲动转移到更高的目标上。没错，克里希纳就是这么说的。
吉塔说我们连一刻钟都不能不活动，所以修行是重要的，升华也是重要的。我不会说修行的人就放弃性生活，而是说他们通过追求更高的目标来升华自己的性欲。
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happiness through Curiosity on the ren show I'm partially embarrassed about asking you the next question because that's my societal conditioning but I'm not asking you from a society perspective I'm asking you from a very human life perspective sure okay um I think that because you are a renunciant and you've studied the shastras as much as you have you are the one person or one of the people who's capable of giving a correct shastra based opinion on sexuality which consumes so many people's Journeys in so
many ways for example and I'm not just talking about the act of sex right uh I'm talking about the drive for sexuality which then becomes kind of cosmetic kind of material I need to accumulate wealth to be more attractive I need to get this procedure to be more attractive and look younger it's all driven by sexuality so I would love to get to know a monk's perspective on both the act of sex right and casual sex because it is a truth of our times MH as well as the process of sexuality in general right uh
because that's a big part of renunciation yes so the further you get from it the more you see it from a distance and perhaps the more you understand it right I think it's a very important question and uh let me Begin by saying that chrishna says in BH that I am sex life which is as per the principles of Dharma which means that sex life by itself is also a very dharmic process of how we can fulfill the desires of the Lord of creating progeny in this world so having given those uh framing statements let me come to the quote from
Mahabharat which says eating sleeping mating which is sex life and defense or fearing these four are common to humans and animals so if you see these four out of these four if you see the animals you may see some animals are grazing so there is no time limit for their grazing from morning till night searching for food because they have been made and designed like that uh Nidra also sleeping mating so there is fixed times where you can do all those things but one thing which is common which is constant within all of us is fearing B
so there is a starting time to eating ending time to eating and sleeping and mating but for fearing there is no starting ending time so out of the four the most difficult to overcome is fearing B now when you do not do this other three properly if your eating is not proper then it creates disease which may increase by if you're sleeping is not proper you are thinking I Superman Super Woman no need to sleep at night night is for remaining awake day is for sleeping you do for some time nowadays you see the
trends heart attacks at 30s 40s because of lack of sleep in Japan companies had to incentivize employees that those who will sleep 5 and a half six hours they will get this much cash they will get promotions this that go to sleep so when you don't go to sleep properly then also fear of disease fear of heart attack so much similarly sex life also if we don't do that properly as per the injunctions described in the revealed scriptures then it increases our b or fear so therefore the next line of this schloka
says [Music] that if one is focused only on these four then one is kind of like animal but what separates human beings from other animals is in human life we can engage in spiritual inquisitiveness otherwise all species are doing only two things asking questions and getting answers questions and answers right so therefore so every species is engaged in only asking questions and working to getting answers to those questions what are those questions in every species where is Food where is sleep where is sex
life and where is security and shelter against fear these are the typical questions this is the base level questions now in human form of life we give sophisticated Dimensions to these questions but at the basic level these are the questions wow you are thinking oh where is my property 2 bhk 3bhk rental ownership mortgage this that but ultimately it is Shelter by how to protect myself where I can have Nidra peacefully you know so clothing this that everything is Con centered around these four only the
animals just go and do it human beings discuss plan and then do it and then they don't realize that they are meant to do something Beyond these four that is called Dam so therefore V Sutra begins with the understanding ataha the core business in human form of life is to inquire about my spiritual journey and how to help the soul go beyond taking bodies and that is what is known as Moka or MTI or whatever now the problem is when people don't ask that question Braha what is that question there are
five questions related to brah jasa where is my soul now number two where is my soul going to go destination after death number three what will be the experience of my soul in that destination number four what is the path I want the soul to take to reach that destination number five what are the obstacles in my soul's Journey this five consider are considered part of what is known as Brahma jasa curious curiosity about the Curiosity about the Journey of the Soul just like you're looking forward I want
to go to Switzerland so you are looking at okay I'm in Mumbai my destination is Switzerland okay should I ski in the Alps should I go to Geneva be part of world economic Forum so these are different experiences then okay should I take Swissair should I take Lanza should I take this that it is the journey okay I don't have a Visa or it's an obstacle in the journey so all these are part of the journey for the body similarly for the soul also one is expected to do such a serious planning about the
journey after death as we make plans for our vacations and holiday destinations so therefore when we are constantly planning about the Journey of the Soul then that becomes your main focus and then everything else is to support that like you are day and night absorbed in one thought how to create quality how can run create quality content to contribute to the peace and Harmony and happiness of this world that's your meditation so for you then the food becomes a supporting thing yeah you know you need to keep your throat warm so you
need some hot water you need to have a place to stay but your meditation is on this everything else takes a supporting role so therefore when one prioritizes Dharma sanatan Dharma spirituality and that experience after the of the destination of the Soul then ahara has to support that Moka Nidra has to support the Moa B has to support the Moka mun has to support that Moka because if it does not it will hinder that particular objective ahar is ahar is food eating so food sleep food ahar is food Nidra is sleeping B is fearing
insecurities dangers various kinds of attacks and mun is sex life so all these four become subservient to the original idea of how we can achieve that destination spiritually so therefore in the Scriptures it is enjoyed that as soon as you rep prioritize people say should I be vegetarian non-vegetarian should I sleep 4 hours 8 hours should I you know have girlfriends and have sex or you know should I get married or you know what do you think about abstinence contenance brahmacharya this that everything I said those are all
secondary things it's like saying should I take Lanza should I take Air India should I take K Pacific should I take Swiss a Aba what is your destination first decide the destination once destination is decided then all the other details of the journey they fall backwards so you have to work backwards with the destination first so when you are talking to me then you are assuming that someone who's taking spiritual journey very seriously and spiritual destination very seriously so the responses of such a person
towards eating will be from the perspective of spiritual destination the response of a spiritualist like me who focused on the spiritual destination will be different when you ask about sleeping says in the sleeping must be moderate not too extreme not too much not too little it must be in such a way that timing of the sleep should be such that you waking up at a time which supports that spiritual destination then your fearing should be such that I fear things which will distract my mind I fear things which will inhibit my
journey towards remembrance of Krishna and similarly my tun or sex life should also be in such a way it should not inhibit and dampen the the progress of my journey towards that spiritual destination so the boxers diet and the gymnast diet is different because their destination is different so accordingly everything flows so now for somebody who has that spiritual destination from that perspective the sex life becomes an attendant duty to perform as a service to the Lord and that is what Krishna is
saying in this vers in all traditions in the faith Traditions sex life has always been considered to be a process by which we serve the Supreme Lord we serve the society by becoming agents and instruments to bring in Souls into this world in a Divine Consciousness so that that soul is able to accomplish the destination of spirituality and therefore we have sh us samsar 16 samsaras in vic tradition so one of the samsaras is the gadan samcara where the Divine soul is invoked Divinity is invoked so that even
before impregnation of the husband by the husband to the wife there are various rituals which are done and when the act of sex life actually happens so auspicious souls are invoked to come and be part of the womb so that is known as gadan sanskara then once that sanskara is done then when the soul is in the womb and in a particular month around 7eventh or e8th month they do what is known Asar which means all the positive energies are invoked on that particular uh Soul which is within the womb so that all the
blessings come upon that soul and then when the soul actually comes out and the birth happens then there is a jat Karma sansara and then immediately after that there is vidara churaka various kinds of sanskaras where education begins so the whole idea is to transform The Impressions what is that transformation of impression basic idea through the Samara samsara means a method by which Impressions on the mind are replaced you know you are deleting old files and replacing those old files with new files old memories replaced with new
memories New Impressions new narratives new priorities and how does that happen through the process of chanting of the mantras and exposing to various kinds of rituals so the main impression we want to change is I am the controller I am the proprietor I am the enjoyer that is the typical narrative which the condition Soul carries it is called m abhiman m ahankar false ego to be replaced with the real ego which is the Supreme iswar is the controller he's the proprietor he's the enjoyer I am the servant so therefore that's what
these sanskaras aim to achieve through this so many people feel this is all rituals and this and that no in vic sanatan Dharma all these were connected to each other in one beautiful seamless method by which the entire Society like a Rel race was helping the Soul's Consciousness to elevate from here to there and every member in society played a part in fact even before my birth my mother was sharing in a interview uh some months ago that there was a whole group of ladies who were chanting shankaracharya
saari shlokas just one day before I was born you know so all of those are powerful impact in fact there is an interesting story that a lady was pregnant and she would see uh uh a particular television serial on a regular basis and when she gave birth to this child this child would keep crying and crying and would become quiet only when that serial would be switched on so therefore when you speak about sex from the perspective of those who are practicing or wanting to achieve something spiritual that being their
priority they focus on their priority that becomes their sadhana to get that done and they give less priority to these other things and align these activities with that priority like somebody's in Kota studying for IIT may not watch movies for months together so it's not that you know the movies don't give pleasure but the movies give pleasure but he has decided to abnegate that pleasure to the higher pleasure which he will get when the results are announced and he says oh you are in the top 100 in IIT that pleasure he is
prioritizing over the pleasure of watching a movie so if people say hey what do you mean sex doesn't have pleasure or what so no there is pleasure in the act of sex but when a person prioritizes spiritual life so that pleasure when the soul gets connected to the Super Soul through an eternal relationship it releases a certain degree and Quant quum and quality of pleasure Which is far superior to the pleasure of sex and that's what has inspired people through Millennia to be able to control sex life and prioritize
spiritual pleasure so therefore we should never think that this can be done artificially a person cannot be sitting in Kota not studying for IIT and just say that I will not watch movie I will not watch movie no he's is not watching movie is directly interlined with his prioritizing his absorption in studying his syllabus and writing the test so that he qualifies in the IIT like as a human you'll always have that urge to do something so transfer that urge to the higher goal exactly so Krishna says in
Gita that that we cannot remain without activity even for one moment even for one moment we cannot remain inactive therefore diling is important sublimating is important so I won't say that those who are practicing spirituality abnegate sex life rather you should say they sublimate their sex Desire by going for a higher purpose and a higher goal hey if you enjoyed today's clip make sure you check out all the other clips we've uploaded on this channel you'll find a clip related to almost every single
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